Sunday, February 1, 2009

LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP PART II



After some more expiriences I am really happy thet whatever i wrote is real . Friendship gets weaken if love interferes . I have really not thought seriously about one thing . Who wins in this bloody cold war between love and friendship . As people say everything is fair in love and war . I ask them is it good to break friendship for your love . If your friend is one you dont want between you and your love . Then is it good to dodge your friend for it ? No !!! Then how come it is fair ? Love is a blind game and if I really curse love for it then i dont think i am wrong at all . Because this blind game dont even get to knw that what all things it has destroyed while it was on its way , which has no certain future ! No certain destination ! Love is such a wonderfull feeling , you get all the joy in it . Even if the person you love hurts you , teases you , laughs at you or do anything that normally would have hurt you also looks lovable to you !!! You get soo free and real that you dont regret for any bad thing hapened . Love is a feeling which destroys all the pain . Spread joy in your life , but even if all this is true , it is the same love which can destroy all your joy , all your smiles and atlast your life . Love spreads smiles as well as it is exactly responsible to wash away your smiles by your tears !!! Love is crazy , love is mad , love is blind so I can forgive anything for love , but if it comes in between my friendship then it wont be forgiven anytime , and i think it should not be . Finally I want to tell you guyz about some balancing facts . You guys know how beautiful love is ! As well as you know how important friendship is . Why not try balancing them out ? Love and friendship have their own space . So lets try not mixing up them . Love needs its own space , and if you cant give it , give up loving . There is nothing easy than loving somebody as well as there is nothing hard as breaking a friendship . Whenever one is getting to know that our love and friendship are interacting one should be more careful than ever because both of these feelings contribute most of our life . Love and friendship is the reason for which all feelings got created by god . Love and friendship are the reason we live , we cry , we die ..............
if love is life

then what friendship is like ,

I know love is pure
but friendship is the cure !!!
so friends please dont ever mix up these relations or you will be in hell of problems and you can never get out of it !!!Love your friendship !!!As well as remember if there is no love there is no friendship !!!

Friday, January 30, 2009

LOVE AND FRIENSHIP PART I


This tym waghya one of ma best frenz...has given me this topic to write on . i wish and i will try to maintain the seriousness and the level of this topic as it is very sensitive . I think iI am a total combo pack of a best friend you need in your life as well as a real true and mad lover one alwayz wish in her life . I am a man of golden heart one needs to love a person as well as I am ready to give al the sacrifices for keepin the friendship alive till I . I want to write that how love is related rather it interferes wid friendship and how they cause various things happen in our simple life . I hope all my observations and judgements do not hurt anybody and probably cum true . This topic has many nodes and modes involved in it . I even dont know that how much I know about this topic , starting this topic I want to tell you a sms i have ->one day LOVE asked FRIENDSHIP why are you in world when i am here ? Friendship smiled replied "to spread smiles where you leave tears ". Now that was like a shot wasnt dat ? But is it the reality ? Do friendship really helps us in healing the scars love gave us ? People say friendship is the strongest relation on earth . But is it the same when love interferes with friendship ? Does love weakens the bonds of the friendship ? Who wins in the war of love and friendship ? Now moving on to each point slowly , I have something to say about my first question . Do friendship helps us in healing the scars love gave us ? There are various situations one can consider to answer this question . Everybody has thier own expieriences as well as opinion so there may be different viewes on this . Let me tell you one for sure now only , that after breaking up in love , those two persons cant even bound themselves in friendship . So here friendship is not coming into act only so it cant hepl you in anyway . Your other friends and their may help you upto some extent but friendship and love have their own place in life and they have their own ways . Now moving on to the second point , as we all say that friendship is the strongest bond , but is it in real ? When love interferes with your friendshp or otherways are you happy with your friendship ? Ofcourse you are not . It is because you are in love . Then how come friendship is the strongest bond . I always belived on friendship more than love . I always thought that friendship remains same whatever the conditions are . But unfortunately i was wrong !!! I want to tell you guyz a story here for that . PURE IMAGENARY . Once there were two boyz . Who were best freinds of each other . they were with each other full day . thier bond of freindship was so strong that they never thought of anything which can brak them apart . After some time , a girl came in their life . She was best friend of one of them and nobody of other . Later on that nobody became everything for him . She became his life . J ust because the two guyz are best friends of each other , the boy who was in love wanted to tell his best friend that he was in love with his best friend . As soon as he told it to him . That boy said that 'I wont let happen anything in between you guyz because I will loose both of you ' . Now I dont want to discuss more on this story . I want you guyz to think that why this hapend . Where those best friends and their friendship gone in a second ? Why the fuck only only one personin those three who is in love as well as want his best friend to be with him forever is dieng ? Was their friendship weak ? Or it was love who made it weaker from anyside u can say , i dont care . What I want to tell you guyz is love is not at all good if it is going to interfere with your friendship . All you going to get is some chances of sacrificing yourself . Huh . Some guilty pleasures and broken heart .

Monday, January 26, 2009

LOVELY AFFAIR


I am a very very romantic person at heart.. I get attached to people very fast .. u can say dat i am an emotional fool ...hehehe....when i lov someone i juz forget all oda things ......the gal i am in lov wid is ma only world afta dat...i knw shez lucky ,,,very less people lov lyk dis .....i get the purest happieness wen i am in lov ...Yes...but the only drawbak of loving someone lyk dis is wen u get hurt ,,,, you cant eva count how much pieces of your own heart......n which ah still in lov wid dat gal.....very senti na....hmmmmmmmmmm....bt wat to du its truth d bitta truth ......n i hav to liv wid it ....
aditya ...one of ma best frenz...sent me a nice sms,,,which says dat ...hav a cigar daily you wil die 10 years early.....hav drinks dailyyou will die 30 years early ....but you lov someone ....n u gna die daily.....!!!!
i feel dis sms very senti ...coz i die daily .....yup....i am in lov ....wid a broken heart .....hahaha ......broken heart....!!! du u knw y i said broken heart...???its becauz i knw dat d girl i am in lov wid do not lov me .....very sad......its very very sad...coz its ma first tym ,,,i am in lov but ...dat gal is not in lov wid me....bahut jal rahi hai .....leave it ..hota hai hota hai ....bahut kuch baten first tym ...humare saath hoti hai ....
well enough is enough ...!!!i am nw tryin to take ma heart ....1 piece nai rahega to bhi chalega ....lol ....its but obvious dat i will loose it for a sweetheart lyk dat gal again ......wateva it is ......wateva happens is good fo u ....coz its destiny .... god is writin best eva lov story fo me ....hahaha....let it b ...rut now i juz care fo ma frenz...coz ladki aaj hai kal nai...frenz ah foeva......
chalo guyz...will soon meet ya wid some memories...till den.....keeeeeeprokinnnnnnnnnn

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

PROMISE

I write wen somthn is goin into ma mind which has totally overcame ma mind.dis evn hapend sum tym before ...but dat thing i am goin to write afta som tym,,because dat tym dat thing ws in ma mind so much dat i din eva think of writin it ...writin dis this blog is juz fo ma fun n tp,,,soo..i dun mind writin ne shit on dis blog.....
hmmmmm.....the promise i hv made to ma sister....ma dear sweetheart pinu.....immma family..shez d person who holds d most value fo me....i cant ignore nething i hav said to me....I lov her and can du nething fo her.......
pinu is a person who knws abt ma bad habit afta ma frenz......i share evethyn wid her....wen i told her abt dis...she was extremely angry on me....which was bt obvious.....she several tyms warned me for dat.....but i was on ma way...as "nobody tells me wat to du"....eva....i was ki lyk wen ma gf...wil ask me to leave dat habit.......den only i wil...i think dat is 1 of f most precious gift one can giv to his gf...wat say..........but...den pinu sent me such senti sms dat juz made me cry ...whole nyt.....and nw i hv decided to leave it...atleast i can try ma best....i hv saved those msgs n luk at dem eveday...pinu am doin all dis shit stuff juz fo u ....i knw u wl say its fo me....bt...i dun worry abt me ......n don giv a dam fuck to dis blody dirty lyf awso.........
i wont dissappoint u pinu...otherwise i wl nt frgv ma self fo ma lyftym.........
pinu u ah one of dose persons for whom ma lyf is.....................nething fo u sweetheart...muah..................

Sunday, January 18, 2009

ATTITUDE

du u knw what is it????i dont knw i mean wat ekzactly does it means....i hope u guyz will giv me some clear idea abt ma blurred thoughts.......
successful people said that "IT IS NOT UR APTITUDE DAT DECIDES UR ALTITUDE BUT IT IS UR ATTITUDE DAT DECIDES UR ALTITUDE"...nw suddenly disaggrin the d thought told by gr8 people is nt in ma nature....i think on everything i can,atleast we can try to think to get ne better choice,yeild from the given ......sowie turning again to attitude..
first day of college ,,,,,,,a handsom boy,,,beautiful gal and a coincidence--->>their rol nos ah nxt to each oda.....sweet na ...they tok to each oda , hav som gud tym , laugh , share sum gud jokes now the bubye tym.......dis is how dat sweet tym got ove......
day two---->>>boy came early to coll ,,waitin fo his freanz to cum....afta som tym gal enters the coll ,,both of dem luk at each other and smile....n den again dey gt buzee in der schedule ,,this day no no talk!!! den d boy says gal hs a lot of attitude n same is wid da gal....lol....
huh! oki does it means attitude really??? i dn think lyk dat!! wen nebody will not tok much freely n will not b so carin towards u ,,n wen dat person waks lukin up in sky leavin oda people its attitude......!!!du u think dis is da real meanin of attitude....
afta lisnin , watchin , n readin sm gr8 people ,,whom we say celebs o successful people i got to knw attitude is nature of urs towards uo work,,,, more o less dey meant dedication wid a gud n tiredless feelin..mmmmmmm dunnooo...hehe...
aal d people who got successful hav one thing in common d dedication towards d work dey du ...by the subject wannned to tell u sumthn..........PANDIT BHIMSEN JOSHI a gr8 indian musicion ,,workin wid his instrument fo 18hrs a day.......wow sounds so gud and a bithectic also....he was once asked dat..u work fo 18 hrs wid dat same instru don u gt bored,,,,??? he says dat,,,does a fish gts bored of swimming in sea???ouuuuu poised ,,,shoked ,,impressed???hota hai hota hai..so wat i flt...is gr8 people `s atti juz deals wid o around der work!!!
oki...now i thut y a dictionary shud hv a chance ha ....so i found meanin of attitude as juz uo nature!!!
now i am gtn some wt idea about about meanin of attitude,,bt one thing i got frm ma abov obs is dat attitude[1st meanin] let people go away frm us nd havin no attitude[again d same meanin] lets us to hav no special attention smtyms....but we ah special many tyms.............!!!!